It seems I wasn't banned after all, although all my answers did in fact disappear!! I e-mailed the ED to find out what was going on. To all you non-believers out there that the ED is not real....you had better believe it, because I had a really nice e-mail back from him.....he really is a darling!! (my hero xx). thanks to all who showed concern for me....I could read the thread, but couldn't answer. I'm now available for weddings and after dinner speeches... :-)x