Well, I Came out to my mum 2 months ago as being gay. And i have to say.. It couldn't of gone any worse She is trying to force me to get a girlfriend.. and i really don't find girls attractive. she also wont listen to what i have to say.. Please help. I'm not sure if i got this in the right topic area :S My dad seems okay about it, he has said some very nice things to me when mum was out of the house. He said he is fine about it and don't let my mum be a barrier in my life :) I was just wondering if there was anything i could say/do to make my mum accept me
In a Pickle,
What a lovely response. I hope Crazy finds comfort and wisdom in your kind words.
My 30 year old friend is marrying his life partner in 2 weeks and has yet to tell his mom. She knows he is gay and grudgingly accepts it, but he has yet to tell her of this step.
aww i think that your dad accepting this is great! dont get me wrong i think parents should except this no matter what but you will normally find the dad thats finds it harder to deal with, so you having that support is great!
parents are funny creatures! i would just be yourself to be honest and dont give in to her.
just live your life as you please, tell your mum this is how it is and thats that! if she wants to be a prt of it then you will be there and if she doesnt accept it then its her loss
CraZy- GranT....
Can I offer you a huge ((((((((((HUG)))))))))
I haven't read any of these replies yet, but I would be so proud if you were my son. I have 2 boys 32 and 29 and if they said to me they were gay it wouldn't change a thing for me, they are MY SONS, and I love them, regardless. A mother's love is endless. Give your Mam (Mum) time to get used to the idea.
Thinking of you...........