girlfriends suck

[monkeywiener]

if u moved abroad for a year to earn 70k per year and you got NOTHING but grief from your girlfriend would you

1) go to a brothel
2)dump the winging ho
3)start a different relationship
4)post this on a web site which I know she reads
5)go out and have intermate times with aq ladyboy?

[topogigo]

Emilia, can i just point out that the way you talk, where i come from,you would be called a stropy cow.
And deservedly so, your lovlieness really shines through when you try to communicate.

[joggerjayne]

Emilia. Thank you. Now I understand, and I will leave them to it.

If they don't want contributions, and just want to "argue between themselves", I wonder why they don't move to a private post, or email each other, or msn, or text each other?

Anyway, thanks for the advice Emilia.

[emilia-faye]

I didn't know they were an item until I read the post before this and put 2 and 2 together...

[joggerjayne]

I should pay more attention.

Or maybe not try to switch backwards and forwards between work and AB.

J x

[emilia-faye]

I apologise Jayne for going on at you but I just could see that you were not taking any notice of me....

:-)

[Bbbananas]

And I got told I'm trying too hard.
That makes a change...

[emilia-faye]

LOL trigger...and to topogigo....I'm not really like that....Love the 'stroppy cow' bit...LOL

I love you all really...

:-)

[joggerjayne]

Emilia ... =0)

x

[happyone2]

the question here is surely...........did you love your girlfriend before you left to work abroad and do you still love her now...........

when you went abroad, did you consider how your girlfriend would feel being left behind.........and how would you have felt if the situation was reversed.........??

would you have

a) wanted to go with her
b) waited
c) dumped her

would you have been hurt that she wanted to go abroad for money and hadnt asked you if you wanted to go with her.........???

so im wondering monkeywiener if this is a true post or are you just being a **** .??? and please ......everyone if you dont know what a **** is.......... just read the above from monkeyweiner.

monkeyweiner the thing to do, is to decide if you love this girl enough to make her feel wanted, cared for and part of your life or if you just want to pay for sex 1) .................. im sure you have looked on the internet already 5) and therefore if that is your preference i would suggest that

2) honesty would be best and you are both better off without each other

3) another woman might, i say that reservedly be happy you want to visit prostitutes 1)and ladyboys 5) ......... instead of having a proper relationship , but try 3) and then we can discuss in another post why you probably wont be too successful.................

If she reads this, she may of course do what you want her to do, which is finish the relationshp which you are right saves you doing it .....therefore i question again whether you will have much success with 3) !!!

good luck !!!

[kellogs100]

Well none of the above if you love your girlfriend. From a girls point of view it sounds like she misses you. Money isn't everything and maybe she'd rather have you close by that have the money.

[Nightfold]

Perhaps relationships are worth more than money. Perhaps your girlfriend reacted not aswell as you wanted. Perhaps you should both sit down and talk about it. Things like this are gonna happen we all know that, and maybe your relationship wasn't as stable as you expected. If my partner posted that question with similar optional anwsers I would get very upset indeed. How would you feel n respond to it if you were her? I hope your girlfriend and youself understand that in relationships people work through things and analyse whats pull things down. I hope it works out for both of you, your sence of humour is quite like mine, unless u were being serious 0,O but I am not one to judge where you swing. So enjoy life and good luck.

[Velvetee]

My ex went abroad for 2 years to earn �300K per year and initially I was very upset, but things worked out ok, I visited him on a regular basis and we didn't argue as much.

I guess if you are considering the 5 points you mention, maybe you're not very serious about the relationship.