After birth exercises

[wilkays]

i am a mother of 3 beautiful children 10,6 and 2 my husband complained about how my virgina is no longer as tight as it used to be is there any thing that i can do i have tried the muscel tightening exercises and other excersices the midwife give yu soon after birth but 2years down the line i do not feel its working. Please help!!!!

[daffy654]

It's not a problem I have even after 3 kids but I know the nurse at my GP's practice has advised a friend of mine to use this device:
http://www.thepelvictoner.co.uk/index_simpler. htm?gclid=CK6d7M2b65YCFRyR1Qod7iZeOg

[sleepyj]

u should tell him if he had a bigger wil*y he would feel more !

[Maypole]

What a cheeky sod he is. Im sure giving him a sharp kick up the bum will heighten the sensation for him.

[tatu]

IS HE HUNG LIKE A WASP? maybe he shuld try an enlarger,i know there is an operation u can get to make it tighter for u,i have heard my wife talk about it to her friends who have had kids.

[puddicat]

as usual men its the women

[Velvetee]

Ask your complaining husband to pay for a vagina tightening operation (Vaginoplasty)

[daffy654]

Some women are a bit 'slack' after having children,it is nothing to be ashamed of. I don't know why you are all picking on the hubby,while he may not have approached this matter in a sensitive way,he does have the right to raise the subject and hopefully find a solution.See your GP wilkays,they have heard it all before and will be able to advise whether you could have corrective surgery on the NHS after trying other non-surgical ways to tighten up the vagina.

[wilkays]

Thanks daffy654 i have looked at the link you gave me. i will try that. Ya maybe he just approached it the wrong way more like being told yu are fat rather than i m thinking of joining the gym would yu like to join with me. kind of thing.

[wilkays]

Am not sure though about surgery cos i have kiloids problem and i would not like to break my skin and have growths down below

[Velvetee]

You can also buy an instrument that is inserted for a few minutes per day and can help to strengthen your pelvic floor

[terambulan]

ffs - MEN! Tell him his d***s shrunk and he's no longer satisfying you!

Oh....and buy him some pencil lead for Xmas, just to rile him! And a suitcase filled with his passport and all the air-miles you can gather.

Kick the ungrateful sod out! And have all your babes sleep with you!

[saxy_jag]

He should be b****y grateful you still want him at if he makes comments like that!

[andy-hughes]

Rather ungallant wasn't it?

Men should beware of such 'honesty' - women can be far more honest about far more things - that way lies tears!

[jkkerr]

Surely it's better that he mentioned it than go out looking for someone else.......a lot of men would not feel able to bring that up so good on him.

Speak to your GP.

Or let him put it elsewhere!

[brendaf]

Unfortunately you are not alone, and contrary to some of the comments that have been posted, it's not a willy thing. Some feminists have got a lot to answer for! As women we have to take some responsibility for our bodies!
Suggest you check out www.orgasmsurvey.co.uk and then www.pelvictoner.co.uk. There is hope and there is a simple solution - just do your pelvic floor exercises properly. Midwives telling us to squeeze thin air have got a lot to answer for too!

[andreafranks]

I have to agree with Brenda. It's not our fault (bless our children) but it is our responsibility. Let's be fair, joking aside, willy enlargement is not the answer even if you took it seriously. But we can tighten our pelvic floor muscles. I have used a Pelvic Toner ( I think that's the name) and it works! Like anything in life, you have to work to get the benefit but fifteen minutes exercise a day to start having orgasms again is a small trade off in my book. Check it out ladies, you won't regret it.

[wilkays]

THANKS ANDREA!!!!!! i have ordered the Pelvic Toner i will see how it goes . Mean while i will continue with tightening pelvic floor muscles. i used to do it for about ten minutes or so four of five times a day or as and of when i remenber i will have to extend it to about 15 minutes as often as i can like yu said ta

[wilkays]

Brenda thanks this website is loaded with info www.pelvictoner.co.uk im reasured now cos sometimes yu just feel that it is just yu and nobodyelse has the same problem .Thank yu all who have taken time to reply to my question. All yo views helped