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I like the example you give re. your car but that would be your car that you bought so you would be entitled to do whatever you wanted with it, but in my case I bought the house on my own with my mum, with no help whatsoever from him, in an attempt to escape from him so why did he have the right to put a charge on my property. I'm not saying that he should not be entitled to something, well actually I am seeing that he didnt contribute, but we wont go into that, but I need to modify my house why is the law giving him the right to stop me from doing that. Every month I pay the mortgage and everything else to do with the house on my own so why. Talking about it is getting me angry so I'll stop there but do you understand what I mean?