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Hi jen78, yes instinct is a powerful thing. I watched my friend as her daughter called her at work and we told her that she just wanted her mum to say "it's ok". You rely on the doctor but her daughter just knew that something was not right.
petal54, my mum used to always know when one of us was really unwell and always insisted on a seeing a doctor. Its quite difficult these days to get through the NHS24 approach now, but I say go on your instincts.
Mrs Overall, it seems all too common that mothers need to push for someone to take them seriously. My friends grandson has a whole lot of love and support and its going to be a long road ahead but he is a wee fighter. :)