Uncomplicated relationship

[legendis.god]

Where can you get one?

Does it exist really ?

[legendis.god]

curly can you expand on your post ?

bit confused



pasty well said


a wise old head


cazz i think pasty may be on the right track


obviously i cant describe the perfect uncomplicated relationship as im single , thru choice .

Though that may because of this exact quandry?

Or not ?

[cazzz1975]

pasta, for some men complicated could be the changing status of a relationship ie) having kids, buying a house, money worries, job security, being a good husband/father ect..

[cazzz1975]

If you are happy single then there is no issue surely...

[legendis.god]

Obviously the house thing would be complicated cazz.
isnt moving house one of the most stresssful times in a persons life close to death and divorce



So yes complications indeed

[terambulan]

Comes with time.....called mellowing!

When a couple are spent ranting and raving. It's the sweetest cycle in a relationship.

[legendis.god]

Happy and content are just words , states of mind even.

But not necesssarily uncomplicated in themselves .

[legendis.god]

Teram isnt that just when they cant be bothered so settle for what they have ?

[pastafreak]

But those are 'external' complications....I think what Leg is talking about is the two 'people' or individuals in the relationship. Life is full of stresses.....you could be married 3 times-go thru all the above with each partner....and each relationship will be either more..or less complicated than than the others. maybe it is all down to the chemistry and personalities of the two.

[curlyfilm]

sorry leg!

they dont exist, well not for more than 24 hours!
people are complicated, things change! people change
so therefore do relationships, you have to work at em, well try anyway!

or do ya mean the pub!..lol!

simple give them cash, have good time!
errmmm well most of the time!

[pastafreak]

but teram.....all that ranting and raving can be fun for some.

[terambulan]

Definitely not, Leg - no one has to settle for anything less than what they want.

It's a re-lighting of the flame that was on 'pilot' thru the stresses and strains of a couple's life.

[terambulan]

Agree Pasta....that's what binds a couple.

[ddaisy992]

apology accepted, you got most of it right, my ex was at uni with my brother, lodged with us thats how we met. Any relationshp for me now tends too start off complicated right from the get go!

[legendis.god]

So what happened between you two that mad e him a drinker?

Obviously he couldnt have been one when you met ?