What to do if you want your ex back?

[tanyalee]

I have just recently broken up with fiance and I really want us to get back together. I really upset him by going in 'guns blazing' on a particular matter that I felt quite annoyed about, and basically said do it my way or we are over. Yes, in hindsight it was a very bad idea and I am very sorry. However, he said that because of that incident he 'had to walk away right now' and now I feel like I have messed it all up for not keeping my mouth shut. I have sent him a letter because obviously I realise that he is his own person and we are equals etc. Basically the letter was for my own closure - BUT - guess what, I want him back!!!

[Amara]

You are right when you say that you are equals, it is unfortunate that you have realised this after the break up. You have been really brave to admit that this was your fault, we all say and do things that we may regret but that is the experience of life. I think you have to allow him time to cool off and you may find that if he loves you he will come back. It will be tough for you but I think you have to be strong and give him space to think. Try not to beat yourself up, keep busy and positive and you never know what might happen. Love and light Amara x

[gill3891]

Amara is right! you are VERY brave to admit that you were in the wrong so if you take your time and give him space, as long as he knows that you are sorry, then am sure he'll be back! be patient and keep busy! xx

[ellej]

I hope things worked out for you. I've been reading some tips and advice to get my ex back and already I'm seeing the mistakes that I have been making.