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Well Brenda, my mother's pension is paid into the bank, but she has a passbook account, which Direct Debits cannot be taken from. She's never had a cheque book before or cashpoint card. This means I have to pay the carers bills in cash at the Bank.
She does have a will, but only has around �16K savings, which isn't alot. She has left �1000 for my sister and her eldest son. I have control of the money and have invested it, but always intended to give my sister half of it. If she had access to it, she would pilfer every penny.
The thing that riles me, is she cannot understand that what she's done is wrong. All day this moron has been sending me abusive texts, she even texted saying that I work as a stripper in a strip club. I honestly think she has a screw or two loose, as well as being a thief and having no morals.
I did consider contacting the police, but my mother asked me not to, so I have to respect her wishes.