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Shoesandsuga | 19:06 Tue 27th Jan 2009 | ChatterBank
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What the heck were they thinking?

I was talking to my daughter who is at her first year of secondary school and she says she is actually being 'taught' about issues, which I think, should be taught when you're only freakin' 11!

She says that she had some homework to do about how it is acceptable to have sex but always use a condom, racism, immigration and other things like that.

I'm not saying that any of that stuff is bad to be taught about but come on! Isn't that for like, 14 year olds?

Or am I just being a little paranoid...
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Here I agree with legendis.god; the Uk have the highest rate(or a very high rate) of teenager pregnancies. Due to this they have to make young teenagers aware of what it's all about. How many teenagers say ' I can't fall pregnant the first time' ? Mind you, I don't think the government should make it easy for a teenanger to break away from home just because she's pregnant and offer housing and other benefits. They don't do this in the rest of Europe.
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EmEd1984,

Yeah, it's like I know getting MARRIED before you get pregnant is weird to some people too.

When I was introducing my fiancee to my parents they were like: "She's pregnant isn't she?" My Dad was about to kill him!

But, 11 years later, we're still together...
I agree with your postings generally, Shoesand suga especially your last comments.
Whoops you posted again, I was talking about the comment before your last one!!
In all this literature that she has to digest for her homework, does it say anwhere that it's ok to say NO?
Perhaps if children were taught that sex is not neccesarily a part of adult relationships, that it is your body and that nobody has the right to lay their hands on you, we would'nt have the problems we're now having.
Even if they could just offer up the simple equation the longer you make a bloke wait for some, the longer he'll stick with you, the better he'll treat you and the more time you'll have to work out whether he's a bit of a t0sser or not.
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Lol! No problem!
Any compliment is appreciated!
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Yep 123everton!
Couldn't some people have enough will-power to say no? (Like you've said)

LoftyLottie2,

My thoughts exactly! I thought three lessons was WAY too over the top! (OTT!) I looked at my daughters time table and she gets more PSHCE lessons than English lessons... Stupid.
I agree they should be taught about the basics and I agree that contraception should be an important subject, as long as the consequences are being addressed as well. Otherwise they are just explaining to kids (who are now sexually active at an age when I still thought boys smelled) how to do it without getting pregnant or infected. You can't teach them how to feel after doing this when they are not old enough to deal with it mentally or emotionally!
lol Shoes, all our friends thought that of us too!
Well said 123 everton.

Kids do need pretty strong guidelines at a young age, even if they seem old fashioned. It's not OK to get pregnant in your early teens and they should be taught this by their parents. Of course, I wouldn't treat my child (boy or girl) harshly if they were responsible for a pregnancy, but I would damn well make sure that they were taught that it is not acceptable to have a sexual relationship whilst you are very young.

Until you are old enough and mature enough to form your own moral values, then parents should be giving guidance and quite strong guidance. Schools can't do this!

What I did at 17 + was up to me, but before that age I wouldn't have dared to have got pregnant. Was that so bad? I believe there are lots more really younger teenagers getting pregnant today because society is accepting it. Giving sex education in schools won't solve anything because it's pretty obvious it's being ignored.

And I believe we have the highest levels of teenage pregnancy because we have the lowest levels of parental control.

I better go!!!
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Lol EmEd1984!
I kept telling them all: "We're in love. Really - I'm NOT PREGNANT!" Lol!
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Yep LoftLottie2,

It's just basically down to parental control! That's probably why the UK teen pregnancy rates are so high because most of their families are broken with no fathers or whatever.
If my Dad thought I was pregnant before I was married...

All hell would've broke loose!
well chav britain

aint it just?



anyways im away to buy some white lightning for next doors scouse 12 year olds


have a nice nite
bye!!!
Lofty, you're absolutely right! Some kids can have a lifetime of guidance but ignore every word and do what they want!!
I recently read that kids were actually planning to get pregnant when they left school so they could get a free house and not have to work!!!!
Nite Legend.

And what's more, it's the Mothers of these young teenage girls that end up looking after the babies. Blow that for a lark!! ;o)
Yes, parental guidance is good but there must be quite a lot of discipline too.

Kids are more mature physically, but what we forget is that they are still kids mentally, with no real life experience. I remember thinking at 14 that I knew everything and my parents were stupid!! I might well have gone "off the rails" if I hadn't been brought up with some discipline and respect for my parents.

So I left going of the rails for a few more years!!

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