Brothers Girlfriend

[carron81]

Hi

My younger brother is 25 and been going out with a girl for the last few months.

Its been quite serious and theyv'e been on loads of dates and things have moved along fast by the sounds of things.

They were both out last weekend, togther, but his workmates were there and her friends were there.

My mum was just telling me that while they were out last weekend she was going about kissing other girls in front of him and his workmates. Then being a bit abusive. He didn't really know what to say.

I feel that bad for him. Its his first girlfriend and he really likes her.

I know some guys would love this sort of thing but not my brother

Going to give him a call tomorrow but not sure the best advice to give him. what would you say? its basically cheating.

[welshlibranr]

I would say nothing, best to let him sort it for himself really, the more people that are involved, the messy things get, I would stay out for now, and wait.............. and be there for him if it all goes wrong..........

[carron81]

i think there was some alcohol involved. but my mum probably doesn't have the full story yet.

[pinktwink]

best just to be there for your brother and support him no matter what he decides good luck

[Mr Veritas]

I'd back off and let him deal with in his own way.IF he comes to you for advice then you can give it to him.
He is an adult after all,
or is he,
a first g/f at 25!?

[jkkerr]

Is it possible that his gf felt he was ignoring her in front of his workmates and her friends? If so perhaps she had too much to drink and was trying to get his (or anyone's) attention.

[Nannyjillx2]

Sounds like it was for attention maybe it was the first time they have been out together in such a loud crown and coupled with the booze she just went over the top.

I'd leave well alone unles he talks to you.

He migth be embarrassed that you've all been talking about him???

[The Sherman]

hey I knew a carron once!?

where you from and have you ever worked in Dunfermline?

[carron81]

yeah

[tigwig]

Sounds to me like she was a bit too drunk and maybe thought she would look 'sexy and erotic' in front of his mates if she kissed her mates!
Could have been her backhand way of trying to look like the perfect sex god girlfriend!
Like others have said, leave him to it its nothing to do with you and he is old enough to look after himself (or should be)

[bednobs]

i think you could just hold on. you ask what advice you could give him, but what if he dosent want your advice?

[The Sherman]

IF you are answering to me Carron they yeah I know you!!!!!

[carron81]

who is it?