Just wanted to thank all of you who offered advice about my cat Frankie who hated my baby so much he p*****d in her cot.
I cleaned the entire house, every inch of it! Locked him out of the baby's room, plugged in a feliway diffiuser and hey presto, he's like a different cat!
He's still not too keen on the baby, but he's in the house more (probably hiding from the snow) especially after she's gone to bed, but it's a start.
He has peed in the house twice since the big clean up two weeks ago but that is such a huge imrovement. He just seems so much happier in himself too, so I don't have to rehome him - yay!! :-)
Well done, k8 - the cat will probably never get on with the little one - they'll keep a good distance apart as she grows up, just like mine did when K. Jnr was small, but at least there's a sort of truce!! They'll just have to learn to respect each other and that you love them both!! Good luck, K xx