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Gormless - I don't send out invites for the AB group on Facebook and never have, so unless my Facebook account suddenly got a mind of it's own then I have no idea what's going on. The only thing I can think of it that I may have sent out an automatic invite for the group when I started it two years ago. But either way, if an invite was sent, it wouldn't add you to the group unless you asked to be added. The invite is just that... and invite, you must accept the invitation to be a member!
Ethel - Because I don't know who A.Macfarlane is but they messaged me on Facebook. If I reply to them on Facebook then they can see my whole profile, where I live, who my friends and family are, pics, date of birth etc etc... so I'd rather keep that private given that A.Macfarlane could be anyone.. and as their Q was about AB I figured it would be far easier to try and contact them through the powers of AB than say taking a gamble and going on Match.com!!
Plus, I wasn't aware of the conversation restrictions on CB!
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