ex husbands

[northfields1]

if my ex husband is happy in his new relationship, why deos he still want to sleep with me?

[nclarke]

Maybe he's happy in his new relationship but you're good in bed?
Are you?

[waterboatman]

Are you daft enough to let him?

[gbradfield]

because he wants to have his cake and eat it! If you are sleeping with him then he is always going to have a hold on you yill you stop......sorry to say it but move on , he has!

[Bbbananas]

question really is: do you still want to sleep with him?
If so, do so.
the other question is: would you feel guilty about his new partner if you did? (Though obviously he doesn't). If so; then don't.
I did, and I didn't, so I did. But I don't anymore now, because I would feel guilty about MY new partner. Simple really ;-)

[cazzz1975]

I agree with gbradfield, this will only stop you moving on and finding someone else, he wants to keep you hanging on whilst he plays happy families with someone else, you are being used

hold up your head and move on

[sara3]

it might be a control thing...

or it may just be another "post and run" by a greenie!

[888sally888]

I would sleep with my ex - he may never wake up though if I could plan it!!

[brenda]

You must be a right patsy to let this happen. Are you really that desperate.You are doing yourself no favours here.Get a grip of your life and move on. .

[sara3]

↑ a right patsy?? nice ;o)

[andy-hughes]

Because he can ... but only if you let him.

Think about it.

[happyone2]

I agree andy-hughes cos he can.......................

and you should if you want and shouldnt if you dont want to..............

but if you do, it might stop you meeting someone else, but you should stop when you do

[Nannyjillx2]

who ended the relationship?

Or maybe he is like the ex husband a friend of mine who slept with his ex wife and his new girl all on the same days just to prove he could.

Get rid

[northfields1]

i guess you are all right! i need to wake up to myself, he did leave me and went straight into the relationship with this girl, i hoped i suppose he might have come back if i did carry on sleeping with him but what really hurt was losing a baby to him before xmas(he wanted me to have a termination anyway), and then finding out he is having a baby with her, and is happy, yet he cant even be bothered to see the two children we have together. yes i will move on, good advice, thanks

[Ice.Maiden]

This seems to be quite a common situation, but be strong and refuse to let him use you any more northfields. Then make sure he pays for the children you have between you!