Anyone been in or know someone who has been ?

[legendis.god]

" How many beaten wives go running back to hubby when he has sobered up and is sorry?

I bet we have a good few on here in that situation now or have been in the situation in the past . "


As a matter of interest after reading spermatids comment there (and correcting the typos ).
Has anyone here been in that situation or know someone who has?
How easy was it for them to walk away?
And did anyone help them ?
Did they help themselves?


This is a very personal thing and if folk choose to answer as a green name then i think that would be both sensible and understood.


Maybe not tho?
Im away but will lookon after lunch.
Just as a matter of interest.

[netibiza]

i was beaten by a previous partner and fled to Ibiza, best decision of my life.
.

[Goodsoulette]

You already know my story but he wasnt a drinker at all. Never touched a drop in fact.

I say I would never let a man get away with it now, more likely, I shall continue to not let men get close to me ever again and continue dating lads who I can boss around easily. Not very nice, I suppose behind most b!tchy types there is a story.

I cant claim to be Legs biggest fan but I dont understand why he's being accused of being a womanbeater. A bit of an easy insult to chuck away in these questions.

[legendis.god]

Well seems theres a lot of sensible answers here.
perhaps spermtide had a point to make , though possibly didn't make it in the right way.
Rather than say anything specific to on person id just like to say that after reading these posts i think that theres a lot going on , probably very near to where you are .
Regarding me , theres no domestic abuse history connected to me , so i treat the comments with the contempt they deserve.

Im surprised the ed is still letting these people trolling me slip through , but im sure they will be dealt with in time.

As for any woman reading this , who is going through domestic abuse then id just say theres no reason to accept it and there theres no reason whatsoever to stay.

An dim sure theres someone better and more caring out there.

Remember on the surface these abusers look ordinary charming men and women too.

But you need to look below the surface , past the facade , to see what someones really like.

Dont let it happen and dont lose hope either.

[Gourmander]

Don't worry, the Ed has rushed to protect the guilty again!!
The truth really hurts on here, so never let it be said!!

[theonlyone]

My ex put me in hospital twice and then
had an affir with the neighbour and couldn't
understand why I threw him out and divorced
him , it cost me mega bucks to get rid ..but the
last straw always breaks the camels back ..!!!

[joko]

my ex hit me once...first an last time... he got a shock...i kicked the crap out of him...HE ended up in hospital with a broken eye socket....

[NoMercy]

My ex was heavily into psycological abuse and often told me that I "Wasn't worth a carrot"
I left him last September, and then his daughter died of a brain tumor at Xmas. Now he is all alone. I can't help feel sorry for him - we were together for 12 years.
But when he was rotten to me, I used to mash up a whole bulb of garlic and put it raw into his food. And he wondered why he had no friends...............