i might not be the dad??

[mike87rxx101]

My girl friend told me the other day that my 15 week old son might not be my son. She said she slept with some one right before she found out she was pregnant. She told my the guys name and also know know him. I have txt messages in my cell phone from her saying all this. but the thing is i signed the birth certificate. I told her that i want a DNA teat she said i would have to pay for it. Thats fine. But if i am not the dad? what do i do?

[dot.hawkes]

Did your GF say this to you during a heated argument? Is she perhaps feeling tired and low after becoming a Mum and ust lashed out? I would stay very calm initially and not race towards taking any drastic steps. How often do you see your son? i am sure you are a proud dad, but your GF may well be not coping as well as she thinks is expected and perhaps rather than be negative, you go and offer her love and support and be a little family, maybe that is all she wants,

[Ice.Maiden]

The chances are that the baby's yours. If your gf slept with someone the night before she found out she was pregnant, it'd seem a bit early for a test to show positive, so I assume that she'd been pregnant for a while before that happened.
Rather than fork out for the expense of a DNA test, both of you have a word with your gf's doctor first. He/she can help you to work out when conception was most likely.
It sounds as though your gf's a bit stressed at the moment. Your priority should be in looking after that baby as well as possible.