my boyfriend is ******* me off, he keeps going on and on and on about little things

[SizzleSquid]

he doesnt let go of unimportant things, he constantly nags me, and im not allowed any male friends whatsover. he also checks my phone constantly looking too see if ive spoken 2 other men. Shall i leave or stay

[Eve]

is there anything good about him?

if not, leave.

if there is, weigh it up against the bad ans see which wins.

[mumof3angels]

Only you know, and if you're having to ask the question don't you already know the answer?

[BettM]

I would tell him where to go - or go yourself - it can only get worse.

[mrs.chappie]

Leave.

[beso]

He doesn't trust you because he can't trust himself.

His controlling will only get worse. Get out now.

[Bbbananas]

Sing yourself the Will Young song
"I think I'd better leave right now...."
Then , do it.

[DrFilth]

do you check his phone

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if not , why not

[ummmm]

Going through someone's phone is like opening their mail. It's personal and private.

I wouldn't do it and I certainly wouldn't let someone do it to me.

From my experience, if you let a person get away with controlling you then they end wanting more and more control until you realise that you're not 'allowed' to leave the house.

[no-knowledge]

if you don't get out now you probably never will and you will lead a life of MISERY.
it's not a question of will things get worse it's a question of HOW MUCH WORSE!

[carlton23]

Kick his @ss out of it before it`s too late.

[christina81]

I had this a with a couple off exes!
People like that dont change!
They break you down and make you feel worthless!
GET RID!

[Jenga]

Nobody should ever check your phone. He sounds like a freak, get out of this relationship sooner rather than later because it will get worse by the sound of it.

[sandmaster]

Jealous people make your life hell. Ditch him now.

[oldmegan]

Once a control freak, always a control freak. Your life will never be your own. As others have said, it will just get worse. Go now!

[tamborine]

wots he got that other blokes haven't? He has a foul-mouth so either pull out his tongue & immobalise his 'family jewels' or save him that fate by leaving him.

He can meat his match, elsewhere!

[society]

Have you done anything which is causing him to mistrust you?