Any help

[Cola bear]

I've been dating a guy for almost a year now and we've never had intercourse. We've tried twice but it just didn't happen. We do everything else though like oral and hand jobs but sometimes I wish it would be followed by a good s***. Any ideas of how to make this happen or any one else had a similar experience.

[Sgt.Rock]

No sorry, I've always been capable of doing the business. Tried twice in near a year doesn't seem much?

[no-knowledge]

well if you only tried twice in a year and it didn't happen i guess you would be happy with a cr@p sh@g?

[Cola bear]

wouldn't settle for crappy s*** at all. But every other time we started with other stuff and he came off.

[Sgt.Rock]

Get on top then!! Crap shag is better than nowt.

[happyone2]

I have had a couple of long term relationships that were like this and the reasons were :

the hubby ) he had been abused as a child by a woman and was unable to ejaculate inside a woman ( but could do the above stuff ) cos it reminded him to the woman who abused him

the boyfriend ) he was battling with his homosexual feelings and his other need to be in a couple relationship

the friend ) his adoptive mother used to punish him by spanking him on the bare bottom with a hair brush - upto the age of 16 ! and now cant get an erection.

there is of course a common theme and might be pertinent to your guy, but may not.............hope it helps..........

good luck

[Cola bear]

Thanks Happyone2 that was very helpful. Don't think he's battling with homosexuality (Well hopefully not) and don't know of any abuse but his dad died when he was 11 and I'm told he was a wild child til this happened now however he's incredibly shy and is very nervous of new situations and of meeting new people, he totally clams up. I mite try talking to him but don.t want to make it worse. Thanks again xx