Is it possible

[Toxicity]

to have great, regular sex with someone you don't actually like very much? Isn't it the purest form of intercourse - uncomplicated by emotions or the desire to make oneself in any degree likeable? It has all the up sides of a one night stand without the worry that your partner might be a serial killer!

Obviously the ideal scenario is for both parties to dislike each other equally - however, evidence suggests that this may lead to marriage!

Discuss - nicely!

[Ice.Maiden]

I see what you're saying gonzo, but obviously the chemistry wasn't quiute right with the one you felt deeply for. You have to work at it, together.

[Postdog]

not me personally. I have done, and when I did I thought of someone I did want to have sex with to get through it.

Never again.

[gonzo00]

pasta..i'm a rational bloke but i really can't explain what happened..something just snapped in...well..both of us,i guess..it was the weirdest but most thrilling thing i've ever done..in my whole life!! i think it's called an enigma!
ps. i was a lot younger and more virile then!!!

[pastafreak]

Don't they say that love and hate are very close together???.....there must have been a VERY strong level of sexual tension there....LOL

[gonzo00]

icey..i can see what you're saying and it makes perfect sense..but sometimes life just dosen't kind of work that way. really wish i could have what you're describing but for me it just dosen't happen...:0(

[pastafreak]

Haha..maybe you should check out the 'soulmate' thread in CB

[gonzo00]

have been keepin an eye on it pasta but no one ever picks me.. :0(...am having a right laugh at the dogging thread though..lol!

[pastafreak]

Toxicity...did you get the idea for this thread from a tiny article in last Saturday's Times Magazine???....lol...
it certainly looked VERY familiar when I saw it earlier this evening ( I never read the papers straight away )

[zxyvixy]

yes sex with ex husband.it wasn`t dislike i "hated him.