Does she like me?? females please help!!!

[Alfondo]

Ok here we go, I am recently seperated pending divorce, I go to a large church and recently this girl has been going (she is lovely by the way), I have never had a meaningfull conversation with her but here through the grapevine that she is looking for a husband. she will know that I am recently seperated and will have known my soon to be ex wife. this girl is flirty and sociable and chats with loads of folk very freely, however there seems to be this "mutual ignoring" going on with us both, I have noticed these last few weeks that she is constantly putting herself in my eyeline and have caught her giving me little glances, walking in & out the rooms I am in, she is also very animated when she knows I am looking, am sure she is flirting and want to ask her for a coffee but need to be sure I am not reading signals wrong due to being on the rebound. please help!!

[mosesg]

She is definitely flirting with you, and I would say she fancies you. Go for it you have nothing to lose!!!!!

[terambulan]

coffee.....gf cost more than that. Try offering a holiday to somewhere exotic with you ;)

[barking-mad]

I think you're reading the signals correctly! Sounds like a classic case of flirting to attract your attention and giving you the opportunity (keeps walking in rooms you're in,etc) to approach her.

So, go ahead and ask her out for a coffee if you feel ready to start dating again. Just one word of caution though, you've already mentioned 'being on the rebound' and being recently separated, so just take any possible new relationship slowly and make sure it's the right thing for you at this time. I have been through the upheaval of a divorce and know that a period of reflection and independence is beneficial to work out a new life for yourself. In the meantime, just enjoy dipping your toe in the dating water!

[cove]

i always hear people say one of the best places to pick-up men/women is the church. lol

what do you have to lose? make your move. she either accept you or reject you.

[pastafreak]

Go for it...a this stage you have nothing to loose. if and when you DO have a meaningful conversation with her, she may or may not still be the woman of your dreams. But you won't know until you make a move. Good luck.

[happyone2]

i think you are enjoying the game, so whether she is interested or not then it is possible to enjoy it just for the sheer joy of thinking that someone may like you enough to flirt with you.

As to whether she means it, that of course is dependant on the sort of person she is............she may just enjoy the chase herself and have no intention of ever getting serious with anyone or she might just be really interested and be hoping you pick up on the signals.

you wont know til you ask !!! .............its as simple as that !!

and yes, in order to find out you have to risk being hurt, but hey...thats life............................... go for it !! if you win you will be happy if you lose, well it wont kill you !!!

good luck !!

[Alfondo]

great answers folks

[KingChain]

Jeeeeeesus,all these games she's playing and you still have'nt got those digits yet? Thats easy meat right there bro! Catch and enjoy!

[jessica86]

i think she likes you may be you can make the first step try to have some time with her and i suggest to watch this video at http://www.mytopclip.com/play.php?vid=22506 this video will make you know how to know if she likes you or not and this video too at http://www.mytopclip.com/play.php?vid=22621 this video is about how to read the female body language best wishes

[Alfondo]

Further to my original question, which got great answers, thanks guys. I need more advice, am kinda of stuck on this thing, last week this girl gave me the warmest smile I have ever seen, it was outside the church as she was heading to her car, then I gave her a few passing comments throughout the day, general goofy small talk but always in the passing, she also came at me with a question about " have you seen such & such" and touched my Arm, all very encouraging but this week seems like we are back to square 1, she is still always in my vicinity and very animated with the people she's with but I am doing the same!!! when I offered her a chocolate in the passing she answered "no" and walked past me, am confused, I am married pending divorce & she will know this so is she being cagey? am I misreading signs? tell you guys I cannot keep my eyes off of her she is so gorgeous!! I just want to get to know her but am a bit raw just now........possibly rebound stuff which i need to work through