family row!!!!!!!

[bad-girl]

hi. myself and my partner have been together now for 3 years or so.. at the start everything was going really good with his family and mine! my partner and i were only 16 when we started seeing eachother, and to top it all off we lived 3 hrs from each other!
we both still lived with our families, and my partner started to come to visit every weekend! it all was going gud but my partner started to over stay his welcome by staying down at my place for days none end! bothe his and my family became upset and there was some conflict! 1 year on he has since fallin out wit most of my family, my mum and dad still like him very much but at the time they also were against him not going home!
now since then myself and my partner have got our own place together and we have moved away!
my problem is that my partner and i do not talk to any of his family!! not even his mum and dad!
this is because i sayed very hurtful things about my partners sisters not being able to have kids!
at the time i was upset with wat my partners mum was sayin to me! we were both arguing down the phone!
we are now 19 nearly and i am 3 and a half months pregnant!
we cant get in contact cause we dont have any number.. any one that can help please do????

[k8bailey]

Have you tried looking them up in the phone book? Contacting other family or friends who see or speak to them? You could look them up on facebook etc. or even write to them if you have their address. Failing all that if they still live in the same house, you could just turn up on their doorstep.

New babies can sometimes bring families together but, sometimes too much damage has already been done.

Good luck getting in touch with them and also the baby!

[bad-girl]

thanks but i cant look them up cause i dont no der addy

[bednobs]

surely your partner remembers where he used to live?
even if he dosent (?!) just look up their name on bt.com and put the area then just start ringing round.
Alternatively, try putting the name in google (i presume he remembers his mum and dad's names?) youd be surprised at what you an find. And please, step away from the exclamation marks ...

[CheekyChops]

Contact Jeremy Kyle...

[k8bailey]

You don't need an adress to look up a person in the phone book, you know the area and their names, thats all you need.

TBH it doesn't sound like you REALLY want to find them!

[redcrx]

wasnt it you that posted to say you were part of the travelling community?
Word seems to be past pretty quickly through such communities so why cant you just leave messages for them to contact you.

[bad-girl]

they have moved since to a new address

[k8bailey]

If they lived in a house try contacting the people who live there now or the neighbours as they may have a forwarding address for you partners family, or as I said before, try contacting other friends of family who may know how to get in touch with his family.

You seem to be making a lot of excuses as to why you can't contact them, maybe you just don't want to. If you can't be bothered trying the things suggested, why ask?

[redcrx]

surely as travellers they all use mobiles rather than landlines anyway, can they all have possibly changed their numbers?

[bad-girl]

they have all moved from ireland over to england

[k8bailey]

so every single member of family and all friends, have moved from Ireland to England, and changed all of their phone numbers?

Email?
Social networking sites?

[redcrx]

it amazes me how travellers all suddenly know when theres a patch of land empty and come from far and wide and yet havnt got mobiles

have you tried telepathy, perhaps thats what they use.

btw did you get your ABH charges sorted?

[ummmm]

Smoke signals????

[monkeyeyes]

Casually drop into a conversation that you have had a win on the lottery........bet you won'thave to wait too long for a 'phonecall.

[redcrx]

possibly ummmm, possible explains why the ones around here last week set fire to a mondeo lol