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why is my brother so evil to me
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.ohh I assume you're the younger of the two of you? �For some reason it's bigger siblings job to mean to their younger brothers and sisters. I should know I've had a big brother all my life :0)
Maybe you can think up some snappy remarks in advance, if there is a pattern to what he says or simply just ignore him. When he's mean go away, pretend you dont' hear him etc. The reason I say that you should ignore him is that being mean is only funny as long as it gets noticed. Every time you react to something he does or says, it gets funnier for him.
If he's being really mean and do stuff that hurts, tell your mum and dad!
I can tell you that it gets much better with time, if that is any comfort.
If you can't talk to him, maybe you could write him a letter, telling him how you feel. Ask him to think about when you are both grown up - how will he feel when all you remember is how mean he was to you? Remind him that you are both making your childhood memories right now, and it would be nice to have some happy ones.
It worked for me and made my brother feel very guilty. we have a great relationship now!
It does get better once you don't have to live together honestly.