A serious subject, however, let me add a bit of levity. Reminds me of this joke:
A golfer on the first tee drives the ball which "hooks" violently to the left, flies over a line of trees and disappears in the direction of a main road running past the golf course.
The golfer takes out another ball, tees off again, carries on, completes his round, walks off the final green and is confronted by the club pro who says to him:
"Bloody hell, Stan, that was a helluva hook off that first tee, wasn't it? What a disaster!"
Stan says: "Wasn't as bad as that! I only dropped one stroke!"
The pro: "Sorry Stan, but your ball whizzed over the trees, flew through the open window of a passing bus, smacked the driver in the face, the bus swerved, carreered down an embankment, and crashed into a river killing three passengers."
Stan mumbles: "What should I do?"
The pro: "Well, if I were you, Stan, the next time you tee up, try sliding the fingers of your right hand round the club a bit more and that will hopefully cure the hook!"