looking for love

[legend.isgod]

appparently



as soon as you stop looking for love



mr or miss right



will appear .

[ELVIS68]

goodbyegirl....you don`t want to be let down again...being single it`s safer?

I hate hearing that line...soz... but there is someone out there for everyone...it just takes longer for some to meet them

[pinktwink]

GBG sure its harder to take the risk when you have been hurt. Not taking the risk mwy leave you lonely in a way friends cant fill and unable to reach out for what you want. By taking a risk you are opening up yourself to a new experience and possibilities for yourself go for it

[pinktwink]

if you dont travel that road you may stay in a cul de sac GBG. Sure the road may have turns and roundabouts but it will also have bridges that lift you up, laybys to rest a while and a road that can gpo on for miles

[pinktwink]

barriers are only temporary and cann be removed one by one so you caan still feel safe like crowd control ones!!!

[ELVIS68]

Awww goodbyegirl...shame... but if you`re happy that way then so be it

My missus has a friend who thinks like you do but who are we to judge..she says she is happy single but.....

I`ll buy you a glass of wine anyway...Cheers!

[Ice.Maiden]

I think it must be hard to let barriers down once they're up, but the rough and tumble of life, and the lost loves, are therer to teach us to learn from them and to move on.

[imhotep]

Personally,i am still looking for miss right to come my way.............so maybe if i stop looking or don't look for love, i hope that it will come true for me.You never know!!
It could just be round the corner......

[legend.isgod]

im still ear


lol

[pastafreak]

In answer to Icey and pink......those who have someone loving and dependable in their lives are always much more positive about these things. Whereas those who have been disappointed or let down find it far more difficult to be trusting. Those lost loves may just serve to make a person wary of it happening again....particularly if you'd put all your trust into them to start with. I am not saying that it is not possible to love and be loved again.....but there is an awareness that it won't be easy.

[Ice.Maiden]

True, pasta, but I don't know one person who hasn't been let down or felt the pain of a lost love in the past. When trust's been destroyed, it's sometimes hard to give that again, but it's the person's own self which stops them from moving on.
Love isn't all a bed of roses, and someone'd have to be very naive to believe that nothing could ever go wrong. The romantic part of ourselves HOPES that it's forever, but in reality 1 in 3 marriages end in divorce, so you can never get too complacent. My own opinion is that when one door closes, another opens, but not everyone can believe that. Break ups usually cause sadness or acrimony to at least one party, but it's up to the individual to forge on to new horizons. The trouble is, depression can set in, and unless it's treated, this can remain with someone for the rest of their lives and blight any future relationships.

[tamborine]

Those who lose partners in death also get lonely but looking for 'replacements' is not the option for all. Being lonely for the dec'd partner is not compensated by children, relatives & friends.

Adjusting to lone living & quietness of home, less phone calls/invites etc is difficult. Positive effort is necessary to fill time. I find websites great for communication with 'no strings' and you mix with all age sorts!

[legendisgod.]

tambo

i love being single

suits me to have my own company


maybe its different for women i dunno
but i like my own space and noone telling me what to do


i like it


tambo are you old ?

and male or female?