I hardly use this site these days too, I used to be and active member of this site and I can honestly say, One member has totally destroyed the site and until that person finds a new interest, I think this place will always be based on childish and unacceptable behaviour.
I know it's easy to overlook the posts we don't want to respond to but when you look down the lists of questions and general chat, it's hard to pick out the (few and far between) genuine posts.
Face book has given me a chance to get on with the good people of this site. (Not to suggest that I've only added the people who are nice - there are still a lot of you I haven't had chance to add, mostly due to the fact that I don't know your names on FB)