Sent the wrong text to my boyfriend by mistake

[lil123]

Yesterday I sent a text that was meant for my friend and I was proper slagging my boyfriend off.
Anyway, I sent it to him by mistake and have this is now gona cause major problems.
I wish I had the guts just to say it to his face and I was thinking of ended the relationship anyway.
Any advice please?

[NoMercy]

Did you complain about the size of his manhood? ;-/

[sara3]

I don't get what the problem is. you wanted to end the relationship, and now you've told him why...

[lil123]

I feel he has took advantage of me financially all the time I have been seeing him and now it's got to the point where I am getting overdrawn at the bank and stuff.
I think it was a blessing in disguise him getting that text by mistake as now I can just tell him to do one

[sara3]

well, have a little laugh about it.. at least it's done and you can move on :o)

[NoMercy]

How has he taken advantage financially? Does he let you pay for him when you're out?

[brenda]

What's done is done.

If you were going to end the relationship--then you already have.

If you want to carry on in the relationship, then apologise.

In future let your brain do the thinking and not your fingers when you are sending messages.

Just don't beat yourself up about the issue , it is done.

[888sally888]

I am a great believer in fate - maybe this happened for a reason and the decision of whether to say anyhting has been taken out of your hands.

I am fed up with who I am seeing - maybe I should 'accidentally' do the same.

Good luck for the future and I hope you meet someone who deserves you soon!!

[lil123]

I believe in fate too and I know this has happened for a reason.
I will see today what he says but I am solid and very very happy on my own with my son so I don't really care what he says or does.
He can go find someone else to carry him

[NoMercy]

So he's been sponging off a single mother?

Wow, what a guy. Dump him asap. x

[lil123]

I am defo thinking that text went to him for all the right reasons now and feel so much better thank you all so much xxx

[sara3]

has he not replied to your text?

[lil123]

He did yesterday saying it was a load of ********. I replied saying I wasn't that worried that he had read it.
He really must think that what he has been doing to me is acceptable as he didn't even get what I said I think.
I feel a bit bad as it's his birthday next week and we were meant to go away for a few days but like I said, this as happened for a reason.
He has a week to find someone else to go with

[lil123]

I'm just not even going to worry at all.
I'm more than happy on my own and lessons well and truly learnt as they say !!!!!
It won't be happening to me again in my next relationship when I decided I want one x

[sqad617]

Fantastic....that has saved him finding an excuse to dump YOU.

[sara3]

sqad.. you're such a grump!

he was using her anyway, even if he didn't do it knowingly.

[sqad617]

sara...morning my love....snooker today, but it really is hot++

[sara3]

I'm off out to meet my sister for lunch :o)

it's very hot++ here, too!

had the stitches out of my eyelid yesterday but they had to use a razor blade :-O

[sqad617]

sara...that is often quite normal.

[lil123]

Just a update on this situation.
My boyfriend came and gave me some money the other day for something I had paid for and we sorted out the financial situation some what.
Lessons well and truly learnt here x

[wbk666]

maybe it was the kick up the ass you both needed?
best of luck for the future and next time just tell him to his face ;)