I know what he meant Player.... and hey you know what - one day I hope we do meet for real. I think he sounds an almost-all-round (don't mean fat) good guy and I;ve come to like him very much. I agree with most of his opinions, respect the ones i don't agree with, and I'm glad he came back on here - as are many of us.
I like anyone with a droll, even dark, sense of humour. Even if he is a dirty old perv sometimes, he makes me laugh. There's a lot to be said for that. :-)
Hey sqad - poor postie's signed off but I hope I've persuaded him to come back on another day too. There may be another version of events behind the story, who knows, but he sounds genuinely lonely and sad.