gossipgirl...LOL LOL
"Family" means different things to different people.
To some it means being in constant touch, contact and within walking distance of the home, so their presence is always felt.
Won't or can't leave them alone.
To some it means shielding them from all sorts of misdemeanours whether real or imagined.
To some never letting them develop their own lives without you popping your nose in.
To some, a family is a group of people that you have nurtured to the best of your ability, educated them and then let them develop their own philosophies, make their own mistakes and sort themselves out.
Don't worry gossipgirl, whatever you do, someone will be unhappy.