oh dear zzxxee that is only a short step from being dogmatic, prejudiced, biased, arrogant, adamant, stubborn, uncompromising, single-minded, inflexible, bigoted, dictatorial, imperious, overbearing, obstinate, doctrinaire and obdurate.
have you thought about having your nature removed ?
hard work to me is keeping my 3 adult offspring from falling out with eachother, themselves, me!!! they are so indpendant and speak their minds and so it is like having 4 of me in a room at one time.