anyone fancy a date?

[DPSA]

im looking to move on and dont have a clue where or how to start so i just thought id ask?
you dont know if you dont ask!!

so my name is chris, im 24 and well single again after 2 years. i have light hair as the sun has turned it a bit blonde again, im 6foot and quite a big lad have blue eyes and been told they are amazing, ive also been told that im the perfect boyfriend, kind, friendly honest and will do anything for the people i care about(no im not big headed just what ive been told). anyone interested?

[sara3]

lol!

[caththecrazy]

Of course your parents breaking up is nothing to do with you as you said it's down to them.

Maybe your girlfriend feels she is too young to settle down and wants to go and have new experiences. Perhaps she felt you wanted different things. It is best she told you now than say 5 years down the line when you could have been married.

I've been with my hubby since I was 14, he went off to do an apprenticeship and I studied and went to uni.We always said when I'd finished we'd go travelling and then get married.

When I finished he wanted us to marry and settle down straight away and forgo the travelling but I had the wanderlust and wanted to travel.We did marry and then took a year out travelling. If he hadn't agreed I would have broken up with him and gone alone.The point I'm trying to make is sometimes although you both appear to have the same goal you travel in different directions.

I totally understnd where you're coming from DPSA

You need to take this experience and build something constructive from it whether it be to take a different path, to learn something new or just accept that it wasn't meant to be. You can't afford , at your age, (ha I sound like an old woman I'm only 28) to walk away and stay hurt. 5 weeks is such a short time - of course you're still upset but you'll survive.


NoK are you and sara3 still an item -nudge nudge -

sara3 you were all for a cyber relationship and I keep coming across posts where you are chasing single men......

[DPSA]

my granddad is dead, actually both of them are! my dads a bit old so im sure you wont be interestd, he doesnt like wine and doesnt have much money!

and yes i have posted about my ex before. still not over her but oh well i guess life goes on, hers is so why shouldnt mine!

[craft1948]

it's okay DPSA..........I can recognise rejection....

[caththecrazy]

Ahh I remember your other post.

You clearly thought at the time she had met someone else and I think if you're honest that is what is eating away at you even though she has told you otherwise. It wasn't the best way for the relationship to end she wasn't in the country was she?

We all go through rejection of some sort and we learn to deal with it.

Keep strong and go out and have fun.

[DPSA]

we were talking about moving in together before she went away, that was her idea, we both want to travel and experience different cultures. i knew when we met that she wasnt one to be tied down, i accepted that, we do want mostly the same things in life but i guess i do want to settle down and she doesnt really want to, which is why i was surprised when she was talking about living together a week before she went away.

she wont talk to me now and hasnt told me anything that wasnt in her message so i still dont know whats going on, i know shes already kissed another guy and shes not looking for anything serious but doesnt want me anymore. guess ive accepted that and im trying to move on but really really miss her friendship! dont have a clue how to move on so i guess its meeting new people and maybe dating. just thought i'd try my luck

[tamborine]

the girlie grooms are in Covent Garden tonite - 'on the pull' - get yourself there and be lucky.

[DPSA]

covent garden is a bit far to go, i live in newcastle but i am planning on moving to london in the next few months. guess it would make sense to just wait and start my search once im there but im sick of being lonely now so i dont want to wait!

[DPSA]

isnt partying by yourslef a bit sad?
ok maybe i should change my question to 'does anyone want to go party with me?'
so is anyone interested? anywhere any weekend apart from this one as i'll be paying my ex a visit to get my stuff from her house on friday and spending saturday with my sister, cousin and maybe my aunt in bexhill in any bar that we kind find!

[angiealf]

Hi DPSA, Try Direct Dating, I did and found what I am hoping is going to be a long term relationship. Things are going well. We've been seeing each other for just over a week now and things are deffinately looking rosey :~)

[excon]

Do you take it up the ass Chris? If not, would you be willing to give it a try? Cause becoming Bi-Sexual could well double your chances of finding someone!

[Bbbananas]

I just mis-read your initials - I thought you were the People's Dispensary for Sick Animals....

Try Dating Direct or Match.com.
Or just give it time chris - 24 is sooooooooo young - you have a whole life ahead of you - play the field for a bit. If you are as phwoargeous as you say, there'll be plenty of interest :-)

[DPSA]

im on plentyoffish.com, not having much luck really. i dont have any friends i can go out with no. my mates live miles away from me, my best mate all moved to london a few weeks ago so im stuck. i dont find it easy to meet people so its not like i can just make new friends.

vibrasphere
i dont think i need to be with someone to have a good time, i just think i was single for 9 years and i enjoyed myself and in a relationship for 2 years and i know which i liked best and it wasnt being single. ive had fun by myself and i just want someone to enjoy my time with, someone that enjoys spending time with me and someone that i can go back to at night and still be just as happy sitting watching rubbish tv with. i know im young and i know that i dont need anyone but im at a stage when im thinking about my career and what i want to do, i want to spend a year travelling and my first stop is america then on to god knows where but anywhere that takes my fancy, and then settle down and get working. i just want someone that can complete my life, someone that can make me happy and maybe even someone to travel around the world with.

everyone has different plans for life and i know what i want, just dont know how to get to it.

[B00]

Awww, bless you DPSA, I cant help you, im an old, ugly crotchety old gal of nearly 40, but I couldn't help but think "awww bless" when I saw your post.

Hope you get what you want eventually, some things are worth waiting for ya know?

In the meantime, do as Vibra says...enjoy as much of life as you can :-)

Take care
Boo

[caththecrazy]

If you're thinking of travelling you'll meet so many single people doing the same - we met a couple who got together , we went to their wedding a few years ago and last year to the christening of their first child.

It might seem hard now but you've got to just get out there and go for it - whatever it may be...