Velvetee

[Sqad]

I wonder:
a) How velvetee is
b) How she is coping with the new born
c) How she is dealing with her partner.

If you are watching velvetee.......we miss you.

[China Doll]

Indeed. She was a personal trainer and I had a couple of questions recently that I would have liked her to answer about nutrition and exercise.

[Sqad]

China....yes I remember that and she came from Leicester.

I think someone got at her and she "jumped ship"

[jackthehat]

Shortly after she had her baby, she posted a question in B&S, which Legend (with his usual tact and diplomacy) *ahem* contributed to..............she left AB very soon after..............

[NoMercy]

Actually, I believe it was Charisse who abused her. And Leg unleashed his fury upon Charisse for doing so.

[jackthehat]

Actually, I contributed to the thread..............it was Legend who caused the fall-out. I don't believe she posted after that night.

[redcrx]

the posts seemed to be accusing her of making her pregnancy up.
Shes gone over to a parenting forum so Im sure shes getting lots of support there.

[NoMercy]

I know that Charisse abused her when she was still pregnant, because Leg was going off about in in Cb. As for any abuse she received post-partum, I don't know.

[Sqad]

redcrx....yeah1 but not as smooth or diplomatic like "wot we are"......:-)

[redcrx]

thats true sqad, we is everso nice on 'ere

oh btw, MIL is being sent home (was supposed to go to rehab bu didnt). she has lots and lots of tiny bleeds on brain and scars from previous bleeds. They have stopped her warfarin prescription now.

[Sqad]

redcrx...thanks for the feedback, she obviously got her MRI brain scan.

Multiple bleeds......no surgery needed then.....good news..........sort of!

[jackthehat]

Leg abused her quite regularly himself..............although he did, on occasions, subscribe to the 'an enemy of my enemy is my friend' school of association on these boards.........

[redcrx]

she had numerous MRI scans, about 4 i think before they finally said she had these bleeds and old scars.

Good news that we know what it is, but am disappointed that they have sent her straight home, when she is still wobbly on her feet etc.

[Sqad]

red...they need the beds.

[Rosetta]

Jack is right NoM. Leg exercised his right to give an opinion on one of Velvetee's threads. In my view he would have been kinder to exercise some wisdom and discretion. She was a inexpienced first time mum, with hormones and emotions raging (possibly a touch of the baby blues) who needed a more deft and sympathetic response. I believe she left as a direct result of that.

[cazzz1975]

I hope velvetee is okay, she was finding it tiring when she last posted, I know charisse accused her of making up her pregnancy

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/ChatterBank/Question769084-2.html

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/ChatterBank/Preview/Question714945.html

actually I dont blame velvetee for leaving.