Try Sitges, Spain. Just 30mins. south of Barcelona, easy access, quaint and not to big and touristy.Still maintains the traditional way of life, with beautiful beaches, lovely people and good restaurants.I'am biased though as my daughter lives there, but it has no neon lights, no fish & chip shops or loads of english pubs, just enough to do and very relaxing. Hotels and apartments are all within reach of good beaches.However it is known for it's " GAY" friendliness, but each to thier own and everybody is very tolerant.