Is it unreasonable for me to feel annoyed?

[Gemma1984]

Story goes....

me and my boyfriend rent his mothers house from her as she has moved into her boyfs house but didnt want to sell up so we rented from her, she moved out in november and me and my boyfriend have been living happily together ever since.

Last night his mother turned up at one in the morning annoucing that she was moving back in, the sound of the front door opening woke me up, my boyfriend was still awake downstairs as hes a bit of a night owl, then half an hour later i was still upstairs at this point with no real clue of what was going on as i was trying to get back to sleep, she promptly started bring all her belonging in from the car making alot of noise, i finally gave in and went downstairs to see what was going on and she half heartedlyasked if it was ok for her to move back in when we obviously couldnt say no becuas it is her house after all but i think its a bit unreasonable to turn up at that hour in the morning knowing full well i have to get up in the mornin! i am fuming about the whole situation. She also want to move in a lodger that was lodging with them in her boyfriends house i just dont think she is being fair!

[hinge1967]

Gemma, its never unreasonable to have a feeling, its your point of view and you are entitled to it.

[the.dr]

no ur rite wots her game?

[sarah charah]

I think his mum has every right to move back in she sounds great, you need to get out of her house and stop relying on people. If you want something done do it yourself. You need to say to her look tramp we r paying you rent to rent the whole house out, so you cant just come barging in here, you either get out or we are leaving. And she will probably tell you to leave in which case u shud and get ur own house. Maybe buy your own, pensions dont come easily these days u need to buy your own for investment reasons. And if u two split up you would have no one to vouch for the fact you paid half the rent. Now stop whining aboutur mother in law and get doing something with your life!