moving in

[blond_law]

My boyf and i have just moved in together after a 2 year relationship. since we have our sex life is non existent, we don't communicate like we did and it all feels a bit strained. Is this what happens - how can i get our old relationship back. My boyf never does what he says he will do be in wash up, hoover its always left to me. I;m gettign resentful and just wish he would do what he says for once. He went off sex and now its got to the point where i don't want it either. how can things change so much just from moving in together?

[4getmenot]

This is what happens in some relationships. Before you would See eachother when you could. Now he knows its everyday and he is taking you for granted. Just talk to him about how you feel. Or just don’t tidy and see what he says when place starts getting a mess.

[ummmm]

Me and other half get on better since I moved him with him. That could be because I do everything though and he really appreciates it. He will do anything I ask to do.

This isn't me being a doormat...I have kids and he doesn't so I'm doing the same as what I was doing before I moved in. It's just an extra plate of food in the evening and an extra load of washing.

When sex is potentially available every night you don't feel the need foo doing it as much because you can always do it tomorrow.

Do you have kisses and cuddles still?