what if ............

[alan-r]

as a matter of interest what if a lady was standing in a bar and a smart black guy came over and asked her to meet for dinner date one day and she replied "no thanks i only go for white guys" ,would that be a case for racial discrimination if so --
what if,a lesbian came over and asked the lady to meet for a dinner date one day and the lady replied " no thanks i only go for guys,would that not sexual discrimination ??

[cazzz1975]

no, its her right to be attracted to who she is attracted to, maybe she would rephrase it as a polite refusal rather than say "sorry I only like white guys"

same would apply if she was not attracted to men who were short, bald,tall,hairybespectacled,fat,thin ect ect....

[alan-r]

but if they was insisted to why she wasn't interested in both cases

[sara3]

.. and those with knowledge, versus those without ;o)

[Bobbisox]

she could tell them it has nothing to do with them, her reasons!

[cazzz1975]

why would they insist? I would be unnerved if a guy demanded an explantation as to why I was not interested.....

if he is not her type, he is not her type. that happens to all people/races and sexes

[bubbly2000]

I doubt the guy would go to the police...he'd be the laughing stock of the station if he said he wanted to press charges because she refused a date, even if it were because of his colour. Lets face it, it wouldn't do for us all to be attracted to the same type. However, I agree, a simple no thanks should be suffice, but if he was insistant on a reason and you told him, then thats his hard luck. My motto...always make sure you really want to know the answer before asking the question.