I mentioned the C word last night (or maybe the night before - can't remember now) but I hope I didn't start anything. From an outsider's point of view, it is sometimes a little intimidating trying to join a thread, and I know that times when I have tried it's either killed the thread completely or been ignored as all the regulars talk amongst themselves. I've posted a few times and it has descended into arguments between other users about trolls, when I've been looking for an answer to a question. I've noticed other threads are sometimes hijacked for people to chat and catch up and the poster is ignored. I'm not criticising here, although it probably sounds like I am, I'm just trying to explain how newcomers to the site feel - I joined about a year ago and I still feel like an intruder most of the time. But at the same time, that's probably my fault for not joining in more. You all know one another from chatting on here so you talk - but it's kinda hard to break in to.