being a good friend and having a good friend is what you need at this time. hope she is getting better and best of luck to you diz, hope you get to the bottom of this and live life to the full, were here now and gone tomorrow, i went to the cemetary today and saw so many young peoples graves and made me cry, a baby died in a house fire at 3 months, along with his mum and uncle, both 18 and 22. An 18 year old lad, whos football shirt was on his grave stone, died(dont know how) but made me think that life is too short, try and live it best you can and dont let deppression get the better of you, its your mind and body...control it........if you cant, get help, thats what they are there for take care xxx