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Break up
my partner of 9 years has told me that she doesn't love me anymore. finding it hard to cope. has anyone else been in a long term relationship and been ditched? if so how did you cope?
(don't feel sorry for me as that will make me worse)
Thx
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Mowbray: There was a thread posted about a break-up and how one can revive themselves afterwards in this section on the 18th...it was titled "Getting Over Someone" and I answered with some in-depth advice....because yes, I too have been in a long-term relationship that ended suddenly...
I hate to leave you hanging, but if you can find the previous post by looking through the answered questions here in B & S...see if you can find the thread called "Getting Over Someone" and read the responses that were given to that inquiry (much like your situation)...I believe they should help you, and I hope they do!! Hang in there ;0)
Mowbray, my brother went through a similar situation as you 3 months ago. He had been with his wife for 9 years they only got married last August and he found out in May that she'd been having an affair since last November. Although now 3 months on and he seems to be dealing with it well, met a nice young lady and has just been on a short holiday. I know it feels as though your world is going to end at the moment....but just bare with it. You are so used to living with someone at the moment...all the habits you used to have, have changed. You've just got to keep yourself busy. Join a gym, try and get an activ and busy social life, do things you never did before. Things will get better, I know they don't seem so now but in a couple of months time you'll be seeing things in a different perspective. Chin up, you'll get through it. x
In 1967 my engagment ended and my mum gave me a verse. I cant remember it exactly as you may see but it helped me and boy was it true. I have now been married to a wonderful man for 33 years. I wish I could find the exact words but am amazed that after all this time I can remember any of it.
When you come to the end of a lovely dream
And you feel your heart is broken
Things are never as bad as at first they seem
Though the bitter word was spoken
and the pain of parting was deep with sorrow
You'll forget in time it will fade away
In the sunshine of tomorrow
You'll find one day to your great surprise
Your hearts has strangely mended
You'll awake to find your in love again
When you thought that love had ended