Elsie & I have met two ABer's(seperately) in person.
In fact they came to our house for a very nice tea.
After which,nothing,nada,zilch.
I expect nothing now from such friends,either in person or cyber ones.
Just let her go her own way,and don't let her hurt you.
Sadly there will always be givers and takers in life.
You are a very nice and considerate giver.
She is a rude and incosiderate taker.
Takers will bleed you dry (emotionally) if allowed.
Don't allow her to.