Thanks guys

[Nay35]

Thanks guys for you replies, I do think my boyfriend is selfish sometimes. I have a Son from a previous marriage he will be 7 on Sunday. My boyfriend has taken him on as if he is his own and is a brilliant Dad to him. I have told my boyfriend that it would be a real shame if he doesnt father a child as he has the makings of a brilliant Dad whether it is with me or someone else, (preferably me ha ha). My Son absolutely adores him too.

[sara3]

you should really reply on your original thread, rather than starting another.

[boxtops]

Sorry Nay, as you have started a new thread rather than adding to the earlier one, I don't know what your original thread was about. I hope (whatever it is) that it works out for you if you want it to.

[ummmm]

My situation is reverse....he is desparate for a baby and I'm unsure.

He wouldn't leave me though...

[China Doll]

I don't think he's being selfish at all, he's stated he doesn't want children but continues to be a good father figure to your child. Sounds like quite a decent chap to me.