IF an alien type lifeform arrived on your sofa one day,and over a friendly cup of tea,the alien said "Take me to your leader" Who would you take the friendly alien to?
I would just ask my OH,cos he knows better than me about things like that,but who would you choose as 'leader'??Just one of those silly questions that pops in my head every now and again.
I don't know you, and would have given the same answer to anyone. It just struck me that one of the main reasons for having an OH is to relieve you from having to make tricky decisions.