My friends wife, who has terminal cancer has planned her funeral down to the last detail, even giving her sister in law a message to be read out and planning the buffet at her wake. For myself I'm not really bothered as I'll only be their in body and not mind, having said that I'd like to leave a few bottles of good malt whisky behind the bar for any of my mates that survive me, and as an I and most of my mates are ex mine workers I've always thought "Going Underground" by the Jam to be appropriate music for when they send me off, It would probably bring a smile to a face or two