Not a happy bunny

[supersuezy24]

...My boyfriend broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago and it's not getting any easier.....as I type this I don't really now why im typing this just a bit all over the place feelin so lonely and find myself coming here to distract myself..don' t know what to do.

[4getmenot]

Get back on track, you need some harmless flirting. Vibes!!!!!! where are you?!

[supersuezy24]

I found myself doing a suduko puzzle last night that was impossible..that kept me occupied a while..haha...finished it thugh, then was back to thinking about him again..

[supersuezy24]

What hurts is that people I considered friends(not through him) don't want to know since the break-up..it's as if they don't want to be friends with someone who is going through a bad time..

[B00]

It could be they're embarrassed?

[mccfluff]

did you drop them whilst you were goign out with him?

you might find if you did that they are annoyed and you may need to do some apologising!

[supersuezy24]

Why though Boo? One particular "friend" has been pretty horrible to me since..It's not as if I've ever been cruel or bad towards her..Just I don't believe that "getting drunkl and sleeping with some random guy" is gonna make me feel better or do me any good...that's not who I am..

[supersuezy24]

At the start of the relationship I didnt see them as much but that was sorted and everything was good since..It just gets to me

[ummmm]

Chill and wait for Mr Right....

[supersuezy24]

If only I could turn back time..

[mccfluff]

well ignore her, can you not invite the others round for a wine and man bashing sess?

[Mamyalynne]

Suezy all the advice you have been given is sound. I don`t know your age but if this is your first breakup its very painful, but for each hurt we get, we grow stronger. I was married to the same guy for 34 years and to our friends amazement we could spend 24/7 together no problem! So I don`t get the needing space angle, everyone is different. I miss him everyday and can`t turn the clock back.

Try to pick yourself up and move on, as others have said volunteering say maybe at a charity locally, even job centres can advise on voluntary work too. Take care sweetheart.

Mamya ♥

[yogi-bear]

Just let me, vibes, and bobjugs know when we can start flirting with you, suezy.........and we can compete in thongs, if you so desire :0) x

( I would'nt eat first if i were you, eh? )

[supersuezy24]

Thanks everyone...It;s not my first break up Mamy..I know this will sound silly but considering the stupid excuses that i've been given in the past and how the break-ups were this was different..we were both so hopeful and at ease talking with each other and being with each other when we met up the night we broke up..we hadn't been that way in so long we both even said we don't know what could happen in a month for us and that the time apart could so us good and end up back together....(Oooh nice cuppa tea)