after hearing our friend has lost his son, who gives a flying fluff about over paid Prima Donna's

[Bobbisox]

I don't!
Sorry folks!!!!!

it pales into insignificance now
Bobbi x

[Bobbisox]

yes of cause boxy x

[cazzz1975]

dot I think bobbi was talking about it from her own perspective, I dont think she expected the rest of answerbank to feel the same way.

thats how I read it.

[karenmac60]

I don't think Bobbi was having a go at anyone on here - she's upset and angry that someone so young has died and that a close friend has lost his son and all the rest of the world seems to care about is football. Anger is a natural part of grief and we've all vented on here about much lesser things than death. Dot, what makes you think it's all aimed at you personally? I've never really had any dealings with you, but it seems like you could start a fight in an empty house. If you don't like what Bobbi has to say then just ignore it.

[dothawkes31]

But Karen, what does that say about AB if we can't be honest on a thread and give the replies we want to give? We are debating this in another thread at length if you feel you want to add your further thoughts. Personally I find your dismissal of my own opinion just that, dismissive, and you seem to think I am argmentative for the sake of it, bt why say you have not had any 'dealings' with me? Do you think you have to 'deal' with people on AB or just interact with their written word?

[Dris]

Thats bull -if we were all to post on several threads about people who have died are or who are dying hen AB ould be awash.

One thread is suffice IMO.

McFluff me the last thing I need at this precise moment is to read this and no I wont be posting a thread !!!

[4getmenot]

I dont think there was any arguing on here karen, we all had different opinions on it. I though it was a very good chat. No one was nasty.

[karenmac60]

4get,I just don't understand why Dot - who says she doesn't give a fluff - needs to make it about her. She says Bobbi is trying to make her feel guilty that she's had no one close die this week, but given that she knows someone younger who died last week does that give her the moral high ground? That is a little aggressive and not just 'good chat' or differing opinions, that's having a go. I know Bobbi can sometimes milk things a bit, but if you don't like it then leave it. Dot, I have avoided any chat with you as I have seen you get into long running feuds with other members. I believe you accused me of being a Klown on one occasion but I didn't rise to it. We are all entitled to our opinions but yours tend to get a little personal which is uncalled for.

[4getmenot]

I dont think dot was the only one that said that karen. I agreed with that too. And if she thinks bobbi was taking the moral high ground then let her think it. But fair play maybe dots more to the point and can seem a bit harsh depending who is on receiving end. Some people ignore her, some people just take it as her being honest, some people take it to heart. x

[dothawkes31]

karen I know I am unpopular on ab and I know I am not liked, but noone needs to interact with me either, nor do I need to agree with other people and change my personality to be approved of or agreed with, that is one reason AB is so popular, we are who we are, (or in the case of some, we pretend to be who we'e not) I don't recall the known accusation and i don't really recognise your name but i am sure we will actally get along just fine as we both seem to have a similar respect for straight speaking