For what it's worth, my male gay neighbour met a gorgeous young man. All was well for about 12 months, and the young man moved in. I was so pleased for my neighbour, the young man started talking about how clean he kept "my" house,and how happy he was. The next thing the Police are called hissy fits all round, and then it is over. In two years it was finished, gone. It was so much more emotionally charged than I've seen heterosexual people go through. My neighbour had a breakdown and is just recovering, I think he still visits the gay scene but he is much more restrained now.