Are you influenced by anyone..eg..

[Bobbisox]

If you were told somebody was a bad person by another, would you make up your own mind?
or in divorce, would you stop speaking to in laws ect when they haven't actually done anything to you, in some cases they do, I know, therefore you probably would..in other words, Are you single-minded?

[boxtops]

Errrr - not so young ttfn, by comparison with what..? :-)

[ttfn]

Young as in vibrant - on the go all the while - oh suit yourself

[ttfn]

^ (;-))

[askyourgran]

I will listen to what someone tells me, but I make up my own mind about them, if they are Ok with me I'm OK with them.

Mick you might end up borrowing joeluke's white flag,

[boxtops]

Thank you ttfn - it's all in the mind!

[cherrychapstick]

evening bobbi , no i make up my own mind , i haven't fell out with my in-laws , they were the 1st people i told when i left my ex lol ,

[Bobbisox]

me personally. I would have to take everyone as I see them, if they cr@p on me, that's different, other than that, if I was told something about them I would want to learn it for myself and not be judge and jury