Looking up an old friend

[andyjevs]

I haven't seen an ex girlfriend for 10 years. We split and became good mates but we both moved away, got married and had kids. I'd like to get in touch and say hello but don't know how to go about tracing her.....any ideas ? I've tried her old tele no to no avail and i'm sure she's since moved house. Any suggestions would be most welcome. Thanks in advance

[shehin]

Friends Reunited website

[dothawkes]

hi andy

I was going to say that too, see

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/People_and_Places/Questio n135604.html

[mfewell]

Andy, purely out of interest, why do you want to reopen the friendship ? (I

[HAnn521]

Ah..thank you mfwell..I was going to inquire about him maybe running this contact by his wife first...

I wouldn't be to happy with the ex coming back into mind...

(but, if you do mean no harm, try www.peoplefinder.com or  www.anywho.com (US websites)...try a UK equivelant if needed...

[spudqueen]

I'm rather worried about why you would now want to contact an ex-girlfriend. It would sound to me as though you are not very happy in your marriage. Personally I'd concentrate on sorting our your marriage than contacting someone who is a little dream figure in your mind. Hey, if she was that great you'd never have split up in the first place! Also, she might not be too happy at being contacted by you. If I were you I'd see if she was on friendsreunited and if she is just be happy to know what she is doing, but don't contact her.

[Octavius]

I would move on, maybe she is very happy with her life or her husband wouldn't want her to be in contact with an old flame.  I would certainly be peed off if I found out one of my gf's ex-partners got in contact.

[ali9560]

Hi, I think all these people who think Andy has got alterior motives in finding a friend is unfair! I had an x who I loved dearly about 7 years ago we have both moved on but I still think of him sometimes and what he is up to! I don't want to mess things up for him but would like to see how he is doing! Good luck Andy I hope you find her!!!!