I know I can be a mindless moron on occasions but really the site hasn't actually changed, I left for a fair while because of some really vile unpleasant fools on here, one in particular that has now thankfully left.
I know I have crossed a few people on here but that's life, it happens sometimes, I also don't hold grudges.
I have just posted an A a similar Q on the site, this site is As successful as the posters make it, but they can also cause the destruction by a minority, simple answer, do not give the abusive posters the Ammo the thrive on winding people up, they are like farts, do not respond they will give up and blow away simple.