William Roache (the actor who plays Ken Barlow in Coronation Street) lost his daughter in 1984 to pneumonia. She was a baby .... eighteen months old. He believes that, many years on, this daughter is now grown-up and a nurse. He has been told this by a spiritualist.
I don't believe in the after-life ..... but for those that do - do you believe that your deceased loved ones get older, wherever they may be? Or will they stay forever at the age at which they died?
this is getting a bit profound naomi, we could argue all day what facts are because really they are only a consruct, temporary or otherwise in our heads. On a more meaphorical rather than metphysical level however facts are what we bump into when we walk around with our eyes shut.