sherminator:
"how enlightened are we as a people?"
I would say in general, "very much", but it depends on how old you are, where you grew up, your religious convictions and where you now live.
Those who are young (or youngish) with liberal, left, and those with centralist conservative leanings and who live in cosmopolitan areas with a middling degree of affluence tend to be more progressive in their outlook...more so than those with different socio-economic, racial and religious backgrounds.
There is still huge levels of homophobia amongst young blacks and Asians together with the 'Christian right' (of all shades).